I know we all have our flaws. Most likely, some of these flaws will never be fully fixed. We are imperfect. I have character flaws... I whine too much, and complain even more. I try not to... but, I don't know if anyone will see that I may never be perfect. My point is that everyone has a character flaw. It is easy to concentrate on me and ignore your own.
The reason this is brought up is because Erick's character flaw is often taken extremely over what is acceptable or tolerable. He has a complex, he often thinks that he is above everyone and fails to see any other point of view. It is so sad to see him treat people close to him so poorly because he believes that it is in his rights and duties as the "man of the house".
You know, I don't even know what to say about his attitude and the way he treats me. Am I supposed to just live with it because he doesn't do it that often? Or move on? I don't think I could do either.
I just hope that he can grow up. I talk to him about everything that he does... he recognizes that he is wrong hours after he finally calms down... but, during his craziness, when he thinks he's calm, he is known for following people around saying the most horrible stuff.
Any way... He says things are ok, but who knows.
I spoke to Mike about it... and he says that he use to be this way, but one day he realized how bad it is for his loved ones and stopped. I guess I'll just hope that this most recent discussion I had with Erick will finally take some effect on his attitude.